Controversial singer Esther Akoth aka Akothee has come out with a special message directed to her fans.
The singer has cautioned ladies against thinking that having children with rich men will guarantee them financial stability.
In a post shared on Instagram, the mother of five has advised ladies to work hard for their own financial stability and steer clear of depending on men.
The Abebo hit maker also added that the minute a lady is so self dependent on a man, she gives away her own freedom.
“If only you knew how strong you are as a woman
, then you will get off your pity party corner and do the necessary. Gone are days when we cornered men with children, 
unfortunately, one man can impregnate 100 women in a year, and 1 woman can only get pregnant once a year 
. Everyday you wake up thinking that someone impregnated you hence they need to take care of you and your child 
, I want to be sincere with you, you are digging a hole of depression, anxiety, disappointments, humiliation and pain. Why can’t you use that energy and work on yourself and put your life together 
when you financially, emotionally depend on someone, you give away your freedom. You close doors of happiness and independence, you are forever disappointed and weak. You spend all your day narrating the pain to most people who don’t even care, since half of them laugh at you, or have more problems. Make the efforts of putting your shit together, the right daddy will come don’t be scared of the consequences, don’t allow pain to take away your power as a woman. Don’t bother with any parent ,who is not interested in participating in the life of his blood
, karma will do it for them NOT ALL DOORS ARE CLOSED ,SOME NEED TO BE PUSHED 
Wishing you a lovely weekend #presidentofsinglemothers,” she said
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